Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Cunnilingus Technique 101

Performing cunnilingus is about the most wonderful thing you can do for a woman. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and it has the tendency to give her an exceptional orgasm. Many women prefer it to intercourse, and for most, it is the easiest way to orgasm. There is nothing more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious; and that is meant as you enjoy the taste, smell, and feeling of her vaginal juices. Besides, lots of women expect it these days and men who perform great cunnilingus are always appreciated and considered fabulous lovers. What if things don't smell so sweet? Don't suffer or complain, just take a nice hot shower or bath together. See the Bathing and Showering section for more details on how to make that bathroom experience a whole lot of fun for the both of you. Before reading further please read the section on the clitoris (Other Spots) so as you better understand exactly what you are dealing with and how it works. Also, it is an excellent idea to combine cunnilingus with fingering techniques. This generally will make a woman's orgasm more intense and will get her there more rapidly.

Tonguing

Remember, there is almost nothing you can do that won't feel terrific, so relax! Any licking and sucking of the labia, vaginal entrance, clitoris, or anal area is going to feel great to the woman. Also, you should never stop doing something that is obviously working (unless your purposefully teasing her, but don't take that to far either).

Here are some descriptions of how to get your tongue into certain shapes for performing cunnilingus:

The sharp, wide tongue:
To achieve this position, stick your tongue as far out of your mouth as possible, then try to touch your nose. Once you are in this position, hold the same muscle groups still and begin moving your tongue around. Practice five sets of three, moving the tongue first in circular motions, then up and down.

The sharp, round tongue:
To achieve this position, point your tongue while simultaneously trying to make the top of your tongue touch the roof of your mouth and the bottom of your tongue touch the bottom of your mouth. Once you are in this position, practice moving your tongue in and out of your mouth while keeping the tongue hard and round. For the more advanced student, try keeping your mouth closed and circling your tongue around inside of it, while of course, maintaining position.

Flat, soft, wide tongue:
To achieve this position, flatten your tongue in your mouth. Try to make your tongue rest gently on the bottom teeth. Once you have accomplished this, slowly, while holding the position, move your tongue outside the mouth. Practice curling the wide tip of the tongue upward, downward and side to side. This too, practice for five sets of three, while holding each move for 2 seconds.

Flat, hard, wide tongue:
To achieve this position, flatten your tongue in your mouth. Cover all your bottom teeth with your mouth. Using some force, try to explode your tongue in all the side positions. Using all the muscles in your tongue, try to move your tongue around.

Tonguing Techniques

The Lick
Leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed, try licking her from vaginal entrance up to her clit. This is a really good way to start out.

Labial Hold
Run your tongue between the inner and outer labia on one side, while holding the two parts together with your lips. Now do the other side.

Tongue Intercourse
In and out, around and around, etc. This feels nice. Not wonderful or incredible or earth-shaking; nice.

The Clitoris Flick
Spread her outer vaginal lips with your hand(s). Then, with your tongue pointed and stiff, gently flick here and there. Feel free to roam, but keep coming back to her clit. This drives some women wild, and others can't handle the feeling. Some women may prefer that you always leave your tongue soft, so when you try this, pay attention to whether those moans are ecstacy or pain.

The following techniques should not be introduced until your partner is really hot (i.e., very wet). These are very intense actions which may be too much to take for some women, even when nearing orgasm.

The Clitoris Suck
With her clitoris exposed, give it a quick little suck; pulling it into your mouth briefly and letting it go. This is a lot like licking a bit of cake batter off of your pinky. This feels incredible, and is a fine thing to do if you feel like torturing her.

The Clitoris Hold
Take her exposed clit into your mouth and gently suck on it, simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with fingering, will usually rapidly produce an intense orgasm.

The Tongue Tube
Roll your tongue into a tube (if you cannot do this, forget about it because it is genetic and you can't learn it). This technique works best in an inverted or 69 position. Roll your tongue into a tube around her clitoris. Slide it back-and-forth; in effect, your tongue is doing something similar to a woman's vagina around a man's penis. This is likely to bring any woman over the edge and to an explosive orgasm.

Still Having Trouble?
Try using your tounge to spell the alphabet on her genitals. This works surprisingly well as your tounge is always moving in different directions. Learn her favourite letters and the orders that work the best!

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