For a female, receiving oral sex from her partner is very stimulating and exciting. There are not to many guys out there that will give a female oral sex, but when they do, and when a woman finds a man who will, she has found a treasure.
Women are a great deal more verbal than men, especially during lovemaking. They respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you are petting and stroking her vagina, talk to her about it.
Now look at it again. Gently pull her lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her lips up until you can find her clitoris. This is where you will get some action and maybe even some noise if you are lucky!! The clitoris comes in all different sizes and they are going to all appear to be different in one-way or another, but this doesn’t mean anything. It does not mean anything as far as her capacity for orgasm.
Whenever you touch a woman’s genitals, make sure your fingers are wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because if it doesn’t have any juices of it’s own, it will be dry, therefore extremely sensitive. The finger will stick to it if it is dry and this hurts the female, and this is something that you don’t want to happen. But you don’t want to touch her clit anyway. You kind of have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clitoris is too delicate to be handled.
Approach her body slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, and make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her vagina, then float away, and do this a couple of times – or more if you like. I am sure that she won’t mind at all! Your goal here is to make her anticipate what she is about to encounter. Make her mind wonder what is coming next and how good it is going to feel.
Now lick the crease where her leg joins her genitals. Nuzzle your face into her. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her. After you have done this to the point where she is bucking up from her seat and she’s straining to get more of you closer to her, put your lips right on top of her lips. (She will love this).
Kiss her gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her vagina lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. This must be done gently.
Now slide your tongue inside her. This feels define and is very rewarding for both parties involved. It also teases her because by now she wants some attention given to her clitoris. Check it out. See if her clitoris has gotten hard enough to peak out of it’s covering. If so, lick it. If you can’t see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up to the top of her vagina and feel for her clitoris. You may barely experience the feeling. But even if you can’t feel it, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and press into her skin – although make sure not too hard, or you will hurt her.
Whether or not you can feel or see her clitoris, gently pull the vagina lips away and flick your tongue against the clitoris. Do this quickly, over and over. This should cause her legs to shudder and maybe even a few moans and groans! Now start to lick harder and if you can feel her clit, start to suck gently. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. Watch the expression on her face. If she digs it, keep up the great work. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don’t fight her. Hang on and keep your tongue in there. Don’t let go unless you really think that she doesn’t want anymore, which is very seldom the case at all.
There is a reason for that, most men stop to soon. Just like with male oral sex, this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well. There is another step that you can take to intensify your woman’s pleasure. You can finger her while she is enjoying your female oral sex talent. Some women really enjoy this and can help them to become aroused quicker, while some women do not. You are the one that has to experiment with this one and figure out what is best for her. If you do decide that using your fingers is the way to go, take two fingers, make sure that they are wet enough so you don’t irritate her skin, slide them in slowly, then a little faster. Get a rhythmic pattern going. Speed up only when she does and when you can see that this is what she wants and if she likes it. If she likes it, you will definitely know. Her breathing will increase, she may moan, she may even scream. I guess you will just have to find out for yourself!
Many women have many different symptoms when they experience an orgasm. Your woman may get red or begin to tremble. She may get hard nipples, she may be loud, or she might not make a sound. All girls are different. So you never know what you may encounter.
When she starts to have an orgasm, whatever you do, don’t stop licking her or don’t let go of her clitoris. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clitoris, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her pussy. If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though; things are extremely sensitive right now.
If you play your cards right, you will get some multiple orgasms this way. A woman that can experience a long, intimate orgasm through oral sex is lucky and the man who gives it to her is very lucky. She will be yours as long as you wanted her!!
The last advice I have for you is this: After you have made her orgasm, made her slave by giving her the best oral sex she has ever had, don’t leave her alone just yet. Make sure it is what she wanted and if there were any problems at all and if she enjoyed herself.
I hope that this gives you a few pointers on how to give female oral sex. GOOD LUCK!