Sunday, December 21, 2008

Muff Divers Of The World: Your woman may never let you go

If you really love getting into your woman's body, all of it, and are willing to employ the single most important talent that any man can possess, Finesse, then stay right here and read on for this female's perspective on what it is about oral sex that makes a woman go weak in the knees and groan . . . for real!

You gotta really love eatin' pussy! If you are turned off by the smell, the texture, the discharge of the natural lubrication of this area or any other aspect of this act, don't feel bad. Oral sex is NOT for everyone. You should never do what you dislike even when you really want to please your mate. It will backfire in the end because, eventually, one party will begin to dread the initiation of the experience and this turns into a major bummer.

There is nothing worse than a woman gagging on a cock or a man getting grossed out by his tongue in a woman's vagina. It's a total turn-off for both parties and ultimately not worth the effort.

The great thing about oral sex is that you can look like a Poindexter and still be brilliant sexually! It doesn't matter how big you are, how hard your cock is, how broad your shoulders are, or how gorgeous your face is. Go for it, guys, and any woman of like mind can be yours!

Get Ready.
Sure, you guys have read all there is to read about foreplay. But what about foreplay before oral sex? Do all those things you love to do: kiss and fondle her breasts, make her feel that she is Venus On The Half-Shell, kiss her deeply and passionately, run your hands over all of her . . . EXCEPT her genitals. Think of this area as a wonderful exotic flower that only you can open and control. DO NOT ram, bam, slurp, or suck this area. Finesse is the key word.

Any area inside the thighs is highly erogenous. Be creative! Use your loving mouth, tongue, and lips on the areas surrounding her genitals. Be gentle. Caress and worship every connecting part of her anatomy. Take your time and really get into this. Wait until you see how hard your cock gets when your woman really starts to get aroused.

Get Set.
Keep moving. Establish a natural rhythm. Be sensitive to the way your woman's body is responding to you. If you are enjoying what you are doing, there is no way your woman won't know it. What a turn on! Remember, men, all the secrets of the universe are there before you. If you rush or become too rough, you are bound to miss the best a woman has to offer. Think of the spreading petals of a precious flower. Lift her buttocks and spread her legs ever wider. Remember, you are as gentle as spring rain and she is yielding to your every move.

Go!
When neither of you can stand it any longer, use your tongue as if it was a feather. Touch her vagina lightly, licking the labia and finding the vaginal opening. Sure, stick your tongue in and out, but remember, the REAL thing is still waiting for your mouth. Be gentle. You are not eating watermelon. This part of a woman's body is so very sensitive. Don't ruin everything you've accomplished up to this point by becoming brutal or rough.

When you sense the time is right, move to the clitoris. How will you know when the time is right? Different women give different signals. A dead giveaway is when your partner tries to position herself so that your mouth can find her. If you are properly into this act and you are in tune with each other, it is pretty hard not to know. Let her guide you and take her direction willingly. You won't be sorry.

Stimulation of the clitoris is what brings a woman to orgasm. You are now at the point where the flower is there for you and you are exerting a certain amount of power and control. Treat your woman right. Flick your tongue quickly and rhythmically against her clitoris. Use your tongue to make wide and sensual strokes from the vaginal opening to the clitoris, where you might want to linger and manipulate her a little longer, then repeat the stroking.

You can't miss! At this point, you're a natural and she will come .. . hard. And probably more than once if you continue to keep her properly stimulated.

What a treat for both of you. Simultaneous oral sex is divine too, but a certain amount of control must be exerted so that neither party gets hurt in the heat of your final moments. This most intimate and loving of sexual experiences can be a double-edged sword. If you do it right, she may never let you go! A man who knows how to give great oral sex is worth his weight in gold! I promise, you will get it back ten-fold.

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