Thursday, October 29, 2009

Blowjob (Fellatio) Tutorial: Lessons 1-8

Let's talk about the "basic penis." I regard oral sex as the highest
form of expression of love that can be exchanged between two people.
Hopefully this information will help you to break down any barriers
which you might have that would prevent you from expressing your love in
this way and from receiving a reciprocation from your male companion.

First things first. LOOK at the cock. I do not mean a cursory glance
not a hurried, surreptitious examination. Take enough time that you
convince your companion that some kind of treat is in store for him
provided he will allow you to do with him, and particularly with his
cock, exactly what you want.

Place him flat on his back on your bed, in a well lighted room. Take his
cock in your hand and LOOK at it. He probably will not have the will
power to stay soft, but then again you are worshipping his very essence.
Few men can stay soft under these circumstances, when it is apparent
that the person LOOKING at his cock is worshipping.

When you first start to touch him, his cock will become hard and be in a
state where your examination will be meaningful. Wouldn't it be nice if
going to the doctor for an examination was as enriching?

The cock must be hard if you are to be able to note the important
parts-those parts sensitive to stimulation by your lips and tongue.

The first thing you will note is whether or not he is circumcised.
Circumcision is not universally practiced: there are advantages and
disadvantages to penises in both conditions from the standpoint of
providing oral caresses that bring the highest kind of delight to your
man.

Next take a close look at the shaft of the penis itself. There is a
bulbous part of the organ near the outer end, slightly larger in
diameter than the shaft, which is often called the head. Technically
this is the glans penis (comes from the Latin glans which means acorn.
Look at it closely; does kind of look like an acorn doesn't it?)

The outside perimeter of the glans penis is the corona. This joins the
head to the shaft. This is the most sensitive spot on the penis. It is
toward this ridge that you will direct most of your attention when you
are giving head. Follow this ridge around to the underside of the
penis. You know that I like to call it the underbelly. I am particularly
fond of the underbelly!

You will notice a point of juncture where the two ends of this irregular
circle come together. If your partner is not circumcised, this will also
be the point where the foreskin is attached. This tiny area is easily
the most sensitive spot on his entire body, and it is possible to bring
your partner to climax simply by gently tapping the tip of your tongue
directly on it. Spend time caressing the glans and those areas
immediately surrounding it.

Beneath the glans is the shaft of the penis. The shaft does not have
many nerve endings and does not, therefore, provide a man with any high
degree of stimulation when caressed either manually or with your tongue
to the exclusion of the glans penis itself. It always amazes me to note
the number of confirmed cocksuckers who believe that sucking up and down
on the shaft will get the guy off. That's not it folks! If it works it
is because the back of your throat is playing tricks on his glans penis.
Your throat is giving head to his head!

Beneath the shaft are the testicles (balls, jewels, call them what you
like, but let's not ignore their significance). The testicles are
extremely sensitive to pain and are not usually considered subject to
erotic stimulation to any particular degree. Not true! You can add a
high degree of pleasure for him by paying the right kind of attention to
the balls!

Now lets go back to the shaft of the matter. The opening in the tip of
the glans penis is the meatus. Here is where the cum spurts. (I could
have said semen is ejaculated but I did not want to sound too
professional).

There are other parts of a man's body which respond with alacrity to
oral stimulation.

Many men are particularly sensitive around the nipples. The first time I
kissed my partner's nipples he shot before I had the chance to even get
near his cock. While I have not been able to duplicate this in the
laboratory setting (he hates to go near the lab with me) my partner
still gets extremely turned on by my lingual nipple caresses.

So LOOK at your partner's penis. Study it. Learn its areas of special
sensitivity completely and be ready to apply your knowledge to his body
with your tongue and with your lips when you bend your loving head over
his cock. There is nothing that you can do which more clearly shows your
love for him than the worship you can provide his cock!

LESSON TWO

The sad fact is that most people, men and women, do not have the
slightest idea of how to suck cock. Most seem to think that simply by
making a cunt of their mouth, closing it around a man's penis, and
bobbing their heads lustily up and down until he climaxes automatically
makes them expert cocksuckers. Au contraire!

Consummate skill is required to suck a man's cock and provide him with
the highest degree of pleasure possible. When I first started my quest
I really had no one to turn to for advise and counsel. It was all hunt
and suck. Hunt and suck. Find that one technique that could and would
set him on fire! I had to learn from my experiences and while I would
not want to deny you the innate pleasure that these experiences will
bring I would hate to see you lose a great companion because of your
inexperience and lack of expertise.

Let's assume that you have taken that opportunity to LOOK at his penis.
To explore each area of the penis to find the most sensitive parts. That
you have gotten beyond "Parts is parts" and recognize that some parts
are more equal than others.

In order for you to observe your man's reactions and get the most
information possible about his responses try the following:

While his erect penis points toward the ceiling, cup his balls in one
hand and gently, using only your tongue, lick softly, but carefully
along the entire underside of his erect organ. As you suck along the
underbelly you will learn those areas that give him the greatest
pleasure when your tongue is touching them. Unless he is made of stone,
your partner will provide you with vivid clues as to which areas are
most pleasurable.

As you discover these areas of enhanced pleasure concentrate on them.
For most men the most sensitive area will be the point where the ring
(or corona) of the head and the foreskin are attached. Or were attached
prior to his circumcision. By continued licking and tapping along this
area with your tongue you are going to bring forth a geyser. If you are
not skilled and you want to please him in a hurry I suggest that you get
him off in this manner in order to become familiar at first hand with
the nature and delight of his climax.

As he is getting ready for climax you will note changes in his penis.
These signs will be the same every time he climaxes so that you can
prepare for his cum properly. The head of the cock may swell somewhat
larger then it is during the normal course of his erection. He may
thrust his hips forward as he wants to send his body hurtling out his
cock with his cum. And for most men, immediately prior to the cum, there
will appear at the tiny, lovely lips at the tip of the cock a clear drop
or two of fluid. When you see this or feel the opening at the meateus
through his condom you know that the moment of truth is at hand. Launch
the torpedoes, full cum ahead!

Where should you be when you are sucking his cock? Between his legs, on
top of him, in a sixty nine position? Where? Because of the structure
of his penis, as well as the structure of your mouth, lips, tongue, and
teeth, you can provide the highest degree of sensation to yourself and
your partner by kneeling between his legs and approaching his cock from
the bottom rather than from the side or the top. Don't believe me? Try
the various positions (I describe in later chapters techniques to be
used with each position). See what works best for you and your partner.

LESSON THREE

Place his stiff cock inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips
around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The cock will
slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle
motion. Watch your teeth on this one. A kneeling position will suffice
but it is also effective when your partner is on his back and your head
is directly over his cock. The circle should be executed in both
clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow purposeful manner. I
found many guys in New York who seem to prefer this technique above all
others. I met one guy who could circle a cock for hours and I found
myself having multiple orgasms while his mouth circled my cock. I didn't
lose my hard-on after each cum. When the technique is performed
correctly it means many hours of unadulterated pleasure.

LESSON FOUR

With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in
front of him lift his hard cock to reveal his balls. With your tongue
find the underside of his balls. Now, while resting his balls on your
wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his cock. It is
permissible to use your hands in this technique. It is bettor to do
this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or
ice cream cone. I grew up down south. And one thing about.southern boys.
We learn early how to get if off quickly when the need is there. And the
lollipop lick is the one technique in this book which few men can
tolerate for long periods of time without cumming.

LESSON FIVE

Right now lets discuss a technique that is probably the most common
cocksucking technique in the world. Take his cock in your mouth but not
deeply. We will get to deep throating later on. It's great, not
over-rated, but if you want to be an expert at deep throat start with
the right techniques and work your way down, so to speak.

Take his cock in your mouth by sliding your moistened tongue lovingly
over the head until your lips close around the shaft at the point just
behind the corona. Don't just open your mouth and close it around his
cock. Slide it in. He will enjoy it much more. Encase the shaft of his
penis with your hand. Remember the shaft is relatively insensitive to
any kind of stimulation. By enclosing his penis with your hand you give
him the sensation of having his penis encased.

Now you have several options. Try twisting your head from side to side
making sure your moist lips stay in contact with the coronal ridge.
While doing this gently move your hand up and down the shaft. When he
climaxes he may want to push your head further down the shaft of his
penis. He wants to envelop you with his cock. As you are learning his
climax you will miss the fine points if you deep throat at this time.
Instead gently suck around the corona as he climaxes so that you can
intensify his pleasure and increase the force of his orgasm.

As you gain more experience you will be able to tell exactly when his
climax is approaching and you will be ready for that initial spurt out
the rubber.

LESSON SIX

There is one further refinement to this basic technique which will
heighten his orgasm. If you place your thumb at the very base of the
penis in such a way as to block the tube through which the cum spurts,
the semen cannot escape even though he is spasming and going through the
reflex action of ejaculating semen.

If at the same time you suck vigorously on the head of his cock you can
delay his cum for several long moments. When you finally allow the cum
to spurt it will last much longer and be just as intense as a result.
Even though you delay the cum for only a few short moments you will be
surprised by the intensity of his cum.

These techniques are the basis of cocksucking. Do not go beyond them
until you have become an expert, not only in the techniques themselves,
but also in the reading and interpreting of your partner's responses to
such a point that you know exactly how he is getting off on what you are
doing. When you have reached this point, you are ready for the more
subtle, more advanced techniques.

Don't be so slavish that you miss out on the fun of self discovery. Find
out what works for you and for your partner and make your cocksucking as
individual as your signature. After all, you want your man to pick you
out in the dark among hundred slobbering cocksuckers.

LESSON SEVEN

One of the first things you encountered when you first started to suck
cock was a gag reflex. Most men seem to want to force their cocks down
your throat as far as they can get it. Particularly at the moment when
they cum!

Consider for a moment that the average length of your oral cavity is
three to three and a half inches while the average Caucasian cock length
is five to five and a half inches. The laws of nature would seem to
dictate that getting all that cock into your mouth is an impossibility.

It can be done. You probably know someone who can do it and that is why
you purchased this book to begin with. It is possible to master the
necessary technique. I don't want to be boring, but if you understand
your anatomy you will begin to understand the requirements that allow
you to take his hard cock into your mouth and down your throat. The
biggest obstacle to taking all of his cock down your throat is the fact
that there is a bend of almost ninety degrees behind your tongue leading
down into your throat. So the first thing to do is get the cock past
that angle.

Get past the angle of the dangle!

In order to practice this, get in a position where you can turn your
head in such a way that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight
line. The best position to accomplish this is to lie on a bed so that
your head is near the edge with your body sprawled across the bed so
that your head is tipped sharply back. This position will put your mouth
and throat nearly in a line and will allow your partner to approach you
in such a way that insertion of his cock can be made so deeply that his
pubic hair presses against your lips.

LESSON EIGHT

Today we will practice mastering physical reaction that must be
alleviated before the art of deep penetration can fully be enjoyed. The
natural tendency of the body to gag when a foreign object such as a
deeply thrusting cock being forced down your throat. You can overcome
this tendency by completely relaxing your throat at moment the insertion
is made. It is equally important that you maintain this relaxation
during the entire deep throating.

Let him put his cock down your throat and hold it still while you find
the most comfortable way to proceed. Because of your position you will
not be able to move or to offer him any greater stimulation than simply
keeping your mouth tightly closed around his throbbing cock. If you are
able try to stimulate his underbelly with your tongue, do it!

You will only be able to relax and take his cock in this way if you
completely thrust your partner. Your partner is in full control. He
must initiate and maintain all the motion. This is the only exercise in
which you relinquish your control of the situation to your partner. He
will relish this for the simple fact that for the first time he can
insert his cock as deeply down your throat as he wants to. Now your
partner begins an in and out movement that is just like fucking. He
should start slowly, especially if this is a completely new experience
for the two of you. After all if he hurts you he cuts himself off from
one of the great pleasures in life. His only other requirement during
this exercise is to keep the motion in the same direction throughout
this oral exercise as there is simply no leeway for him to vary the
motion from side to side.

One other word of caution.

Don't let your partner get carried away at the moment he starts to cum.
At that spectacular moment he will be able for the first time to thrust
his cock all the way inside your oral cavity and that is the most
important lesson of this exercise! His only other requirement during
the exercise is to keep the motion in the same against your lips as he
cums. Because of your position in bed you will not be faced with the
problem of swallowing his cum. And this is not just because he has a
condom on his dick. The reason is because he has gotten his cock BEYOND
your gag reflex! Without the rubber his cum would shoot directly into
your stomach! If both you and your partner understand what it is that
you are trying to do as well as the possible problems that may "cum" up
along the way no harm or discomfort will happen to either of you.

It is possible that not everyone will learn the "deep throat" technique
but this inability does not make you any less a cocksucker. You must
allow your throat to relax completely while your partner is thrusting
his cock this deeply down your throat. To do this long enough for your
partner to completely get it off is very difficult and may require
practice beyond this day. It may be that you will be able to take your
partner completely down your throat, but you will not be able to
maintain proper relaxation of your throat to until he shoots his load.
Hopefully your partner will understand that this is not a rejection of
him or of what he is offering you, and it is my sincere desire that you
not stop here and think that you will never master the "deep throat"
technique.

Continue to practice this lesson. I know couples who have devoted ten
months to this lesson alone. Continue to practice this technique
because your practice will allow you to take his cock deeper into your
throat each time and for longer periods of time. Ultimately you will
succeed. If you have the desire you will get this one down pat!

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