Thursday, October 29, 2009

Blowjob (Fellatio) Tutorial: Lessons 9-14

LESSON NINE

Now lets turn to another portion of your partner's anatomy which should
not be ignored-the family jewels. Here are two objects which can enhance
your partner's feelings more than any other. Many people do not think
of the balls as primary sexual objects. Many men are extremely sensitive
and just as in lesson eight there must be a certain amount of trust
built up between the two of you before he will willingly let you have
undisputed use of these two pearls of delight!

For today's lesson begin by gently licking his balls with your tongue.
As your partner becomes more trusting you may begin to play with his
nipples with your fingers gradually increasing or decreasing the
intensity as you gauge how he is responding. You may want to gently
caress his cock with your hand while you are bathing his balls with your
tongue.

Remember that the balls are extremely sensitive to pain and he will lose
his trust in you if you do not respect any limits he places on them just
as you have the right to place limits on the back of your throat until
you are completely ready to receive him.

It is possible once you have built up this trust to take both his balls
in your mouth. He will be more receptive to this if you thoroughly wet
them with your tongue prior to taking them into your mouth. Unless your
partner is into the new fad of complete body shaving he will have tiny
hairs on his testicles. By giving the balls a complete tongue bath prior
to taking them into your mouth, you will have pressed these hairs down
along the surface of the sac and will not inadvertently cause pain by
pulling on them.

This may seem a small lesson but you will discover an entirely new world
of sensations for your partner when you take the time to get to know his
testicles!

LESSON TEN

I hesitated to include this into your lesson plan but finally I decided
that if you are aware of the most safe way to do this technique that my
responsibility for giving you the tools to be the best cocksucker you
can be will be satisfied.

Analingus. Putting your tongue to his anal opening. Ass sucking.

Before you even consider doing this, make certain that your partner is
clean. Immediately out of the shower. Place a piece of Saran wrap over
the butt. At no time should your tongue come into contact with the anal
surface itself.

For this lesson place your partner on his back with his legs in the air
and his knees close to his shoulders. This spreads his buttocks apart
and allows you access to his butthole.

You are probably under the impression that actual penetration of the
asshole itself is necessary for your partner to receive the most
complete enjoyment of this technique. Not so mojo! The nerve endings
around the anus itself have no discrimination and you will get him off
just as well and as thoroughly by licking around the area as if you
stick your tongue up his butt!

As with some of your other lessons this technique will not usually be
enough to get him to cum, but I feel that it is important to know all
aspects of your partner's body in order to give him the most complete
pleasure you can. You may find that after many hours of oral pleasure
you need to have other areas to concentrate on in order to give him the
satisfaction he deserves.

Analingus is a powerful stimulant and when combined with other
activities such as vigorous hand stimulation on his cock will cause a
rapid and powerful cum!

LESSON ELEVEN

For most of our lessons the only thing required is yourself, your
partner, and a condom. Maybe some Saran wrap. A plastic glove or two.
Well, another toy that will enhance your pleasure is a mini-vibrator.
For this lesson you may want to start with your finger. Then as you and
your partner become more accustomed to each other you may find him a
little intrigued about the vibrator and what it can do for him.

As you are giving head begin a slow playful search around his ass. Many
men are particularly sensitive in this area and it will enhance the
sensations that your mouth and tongue and throat are giving his cock to
feel a finger playing with his butt. As your partner relaxes and
allows you access, gently insert your gloved finger into his butt. Go
slowly exploring the velvety sensations along the sides of his opening.

When your finger is inside his asshole completely you will be at the
area of the prostate gland. Massage of this gland by your finger will
produce some of the most delightful sensations your partner has yet to
experience. I remember going to the doctor for a physical the first
time I felt this sensation. I could hardly wait to get home and have my
partner try it out on me again. While it was a bit embarrassing to cum
in the doctor's office, the feelings that the doctor inadvertently
produced were so strong that I wanted to experience them again and
again!

A gloved finger is really all that is required for this lesson. However
some members of the Cocksuckers Club of America report to me that a
mini-vibrator works exceptionally well for this type of stimulus. It is
just the same length as the average finger and due to the vibrations
that it produces the sensations against the prostate gland are even more
enhanced!

If your partner likes this stimulation you must then discover which
method he likes best. Some men prefer an in an out movement with the
finger or the vibrator while others do not. I personally find this
painful--too much like a stab in the dark. I prefer the finger or
vibrator to be placed against the prostate gland and left there to do
its most. Whichever method your partner prefers is the one you should
use.

One other point. When your partner cums there will be a natural tendency
for him to push the finger or vibrator out of his asshole. The asshole
muscles are spasming and anything in the way will be forced out. But to
maximize his pleasure you must not let this happen. Hold your finger or
the vibrator firmly in place-- this will help to stimulate the sperm
production to its maximum.

Many people have questioned me about a vibrator around the cock itself.
Does it add to the sensation or not?

It does for my partner, it does not for me. That seems to be the
consensus of opinion of other readers of FRENCH CUISINE MAGAZINE as
well. I suggest as long as you have the vibrator handy anyway, try it
around the penis. When you are licking his balls. When you are licking
his asshole. If he gets off on it, then feel free to use the vibrator
around his dick and balls. If he hates the sensation obviously don't
try it again.

LESSON TWELVE

There are times when you will want to get him off in a hurry! I always
say that Southern boys learn this one first and then expand their
repertory from that point. But because I want you to become an expert at
all aspects of oral lovemaking I deliberately waited until now to
introduce this technique. It differs from lesson four in that you are a
more consummate cocksucker now. He will love it all the more if he
realizes that this is not the only trick you have down your mouth!

It is a very simple technique and if you understand your partner's basic
cock anatomy you will grasp this one easily. Place your lips around the
head of your partner's cock and twirl your lips wetly and gently around
the coronal ridge at the back of the head of his penis. This does not
require any great cocksucking skill and it works simply because this is
the area that is most sensitive on your partner's cock.

It is not necessary to be a skillful cocksucker. All that is necessary
is for you to find the most sensitive area around the coronal area. By
sucking on this area of his cock continuously you will produce a quick
powerful cum. It is not necessary to bob your head up and down on his
cock to get him off. One other use of this technique is to get him hard
again after he cums and you will soon find him rip roaring to go again.

LESSON THIRTEEN

Don't be surprised if you find yourself going back to this lesson for
seconds. We discussed briefly at the end of lesson 12 a technique to get
him going again if he has recently cum. Today after you have gotten
your man off, lets concentrate on some techniques to get him back on
again. Not just to get him hard but to keep him hard. Hard enough to
want to cum again!

After he has cum you may need other techniques to keep him hard and to
keep him interested. Many men (not all but a good portion of us) are
exhausted by a single cum and while it is possible to get your partner
up again you have a long way to go before you get him to cum again.

Cocksucking alone at this time is usually not enough to get him off.
You will need to combine some of the techniques you have learned earlier
with your basic cocksucking technique to stimulate the juices for a
second and third go around. Don't hesitate in your exploration of his
body at this time. His nipples, his balls, his asshole. His armpits.
His earlobes.

For the second cum you are free to really get into his body and explore
all those erotic areas that you missed when you were concentrating on
his cock exclusively. His navel. His toes.

One of the things I find most exciting about the second cum is the lack
of expectation that you must get him to climax within a certain time
frame. You have all the time in the world to really give his total body
a complete tongue bath. You can explore his body safely and completely
and really get to know the total body as well as you know his delightful
dick! This is merely a sign that you are becoming a true connoisseur of
cockflesh. A title I am proud to hold.

LESSON FOURTEEN

Soixante-Neuf Sixty Nine

Sixty nine is not always the perfect way to provide your partner oral
satisfaction. Inadvertently one of you will "let up" your end of the
cocksucking in order to experience the subtle pleasures the other
partner is giving you. For this reason I have included it as the final
lesson. Many people think that the deep throat technique is the ultimate
pleasure you can give your partner. Actually I believe that sixty-nine
is the ultimate pleasure.

Done correctly and unselfishly when both of you are completely in tune
with each others innermost desires, the sixty nine is the ultimate. But
because of the problem mentioned earlier in this lesson, most people
practice it too early and it becomes an intensely satisfying experience
for one partner at the expense of the other. When you are completely on
each other's wavelength you will discover that this is the most
effective way of giving as well as receiving pleasure.

The element that must be in place is simple: Both of you must be
consummate cocksuckers! If you have a partner who is not in the least
interested in giving head and only likes to receive it then to attempt
sixty-nine is to ask for unhappiness in your relationship.

TECHNIQUES

As editor of FRENCH CUISINE MAGAZINE I sometimes send out questionnaires
to our members to find out more. I question them about their desires,
and their favorite ways to practice safe and sane oral sex Here are some
of the most popular variations on cocksucking.

THE BUTTERFLY FLUTTER

The best position for this very sensuous cocksucking movement is
kneeling over your partner. If he is on his back kneel between his legs.
Or kneel in front of your partner while he stands. I like this position
because the cock feels thicker in your mouth and throat and you have
complete freedom to play with his balls while performing this maneuver.

This technique was first introduced to me by a cocksucker in northern
California. There was a notorious movie theater in downtown San
Francisco with a darkened balcony. A cocksucker's haven. And this guy
had us lined up. You knew from the moans emanating from the guy's
throat who was getting his cock sucked that this guy was that one in a
thousand who knew how to please a variety of fresh cockmeat. It felt so
good that I studied him closely while he was sucking cock. Not only did
I observe the guys who were getting the radical suck, but I got down
close to the cock and observed how he was maneuvering around it. He
created the basic vacuum pressure on the cock but only enough pressure
to pull the cock into his mouth ever so slightly.

With his lips firmly wrapped around the guy's big swollen cock head and
shaft he would gently flick the tip of the cock with his tongue. With
his lips open around the cock at a depth so that he could touch the tip
of the cock with the tip of his tongue. With his lips around the cock
shaft he would make an up and down movement with his tongue. He would
flutter his tongue up and down the tip of the cock.

I recommend you try it. It will drive your Butterfly Flutter partner
back into your mouth at any hour you want him there. After several
minutes of this continue with the basic vacuum suck.

THE TRAVELING FIGURE EIGHT

After you have become comfortable with the basic vacuum suck and you
have become accustomed to his cock deep in your mouth and throat try
this action. It is guaranteed to take his breath away. With your lips
firmly wrapped around the cock shaft try very slowly to reach the base
of the shaft or as close to it as you are comfortable. Your nose should
be buried in or at least touching the pubic hairs at the base of the
cock.

With your nose trace a figure eight as if the figure eight were lying on
it's side. Your figure eight motion should be three to four inches
long. Slowly travel up the shaft of the cock to the head, doing the
figure eight motion. Keep doing this motion and let your lips firmly
travel up and down the cock shaft. Do this for as long as you are
comfortable with it. Believe me your man is floating in orbit as his
wildest dreams of the ultimate blow job are coming true.

I give credit for this most erogenous technique to a member of "The
Cocksuckers Club of America" who lives in Oregon. He and his partner
were on vacation down in Southern California and they visited me while
here. After seeing him scrape his partner off the ceiling when he did
the Traveling Figure Eight, I rushed right into my bedroom and perfected
it on my own partner! When you get tired of the movement slow down and
return to the basic vacuum suck.

By this time you are becoming more and more confident with your partner.
His cock feels great as it fills your mouth and throat. The cock is
becoming harder and warmer as your warm moist mouth and throat create
friction by going up and down that big beautiful cock. It is time to
cool his tool just a little with this technique.

I take full credit for this one myself! From tho time I hit puberty I
was fascinated by cocks. Big ones, little ones, cut ones, uncut ones,
crooked ones, straight ones. All shapes, all sizes. I wanted to feel
them down my throat! Combine this very basic love of cocksucking with an
inherent fear of not being able to take cock and completely satisfy the
customer and you can imagine how I felt. I needed a technique that would
feel good in my mouth and would feel good for my partner. Here's what I
came up with:

Go down on the cock shaft as far as you are comfortable. All the while
your lips should be firmly wrapped around the shaft. Open your mouth as
wide as you can and suck in as much air as your lungs will hold. While
sucking in air let your open mouth travel up to the cock head. Your up
stroke motion should end at the head of his cock just as your lungs fill
with air. Now with your mouth still open let the air in your lungs out
slowly through your mouth as your opened mouth travels back down the
cock shaft. This technique cools the cock on the up stoke and warms the
cock with your hot breath on the down stroke. Do this movement as long
as you like then return to the basic vacuum suck method.

CONGRATULATIONS!

You are doing just fine and he loves it! Keep it up as long as you are
comfortable with it. For his added pleasure and to give you something to
play with reach up and fondle his balls. Or go up even further and play
with his nipples. This will give him something else to concentrated on
so he doesn't pop his cock yet. If you feel he is about to cum stop
what you are doing and let him cool off for a few minutes. After all
you are having fun and you want to enjoy his cock as much as you can
until you get tired of it. Then let him pop his cock! But not yet. He
likes it too much and he wants it to last as long as you can keep it
going.

THE CIRCLE

Place his stiff cock inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips
around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The cock will
slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle
motion. Watch your teeth on this one.

A kneeling position will suffice but it is also effective when your
partner is on his back and your head is directly over his cock. The
circle should be executed in both clockwise and counterclockwise motions
in a slow purposeful manner.

THE LOLLIPOP LICK

With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in
front lift his hard cock to reveal his balls. With your tongue find the
underside of his balls. Now, while resting his balls on your wet tongue,
lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his cock. It is permissible
to use your hands in this technique. It is better to do this technique
several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone.

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